The Mars Club Member’s Daughter

Nirbhaya (Stills shown here are screen-grabs from the BBC Documentary ‘India’s daughter’)

BBC Storyville has produced a hard-hitting documentary on the December 2012 rape and murder of a 23-year old India girl, Jyothi Singh, on a moving bus. In this documentary, there are snatches of an interview with one of the rapists, Mukesh Singh, who is seen here in the collage, that most would find abominable. Some of the comments he made are pictured here. In spite of receiving a death sentence, he has not one iota of regret about what he did.

For reasons that only sanctimony-swathed Indians will appreciate and preach, India has banned the video, calling it insensitive to the sensibilities of the girl’s family and all ‘right-thinking individuals’. The fact that the girl’s parents themselves appear of their own free will in the video, having found finally a voice that those high-faluting Indian news channels could not find the time to air, has escaped the Indian Government.

Allowing BBC to air the thoughtfully presented video in India would have accomplished one purpose – to shame the nation which appears to be immune to shaming, into enforcing the laws and programs that would arrest this diabolically depraved mindset that a large part of the adult Indian male population is afflicted with – treating women like objects.

Of course, if you watch the so-called enlightened debates on Indian TV channels like the sanctimonious ass, Arnab Goswami’s ‘The Newshour’ you will only get to see an incoherent, apoplectic and pompous bunch of guests that are all trying to shout at the same time and being cowed and browbeaten from time to time by the host himself, in a Bill O’Reilly-meets-Rush Limbaugh kind of uncouth and aggressive style.

Folk like Goswami are convinced that the video is shameful and will ‘instigate’. Yes, instigate other young Indian males to rape. Hey, there are murders and stuff happening every day in India. Is an Indian mother waking up horrified that her son will turn into a Mukesh Singh? By stridently supporting the ban of a truly tasteful and revealing documentary, Arnab Goswami has forfeited the right to be called a journalist, let alone a TV anchor.

Jyothi Singh’s rape hasn’t changed anything in India. There is that Guinness Book record that India still holds and will continue holding – of being the place where every 20 minutes, there is a rape. That works out to 72 rapes a day, a nice round figure.

Oh, there is another Guinness prize that India deserves richly. It is a cribbers’ paradise. Most of the Indian literati are up in arms against the video. Just as they did when ‘Slumdog millionaire’ was released, they charge that the purpose of the video is solely to ‘shame India and show it in a bad light’.

Maybe, dear literati, that is exactly what is required – for an entire nation to be shamed. I have been shamed. Every day at the lunch table at work here in Canada, someone is making snide remarks about this horrendous issue, over which Indians and India have gone into a state of denial. After that fateful night in December 2012, there have been hundreds of Jyothi Singhs, some as horrifying as her case.

Some say, we the diaspora should be propagating all the positive things about India. They beat their chests in pride,’ Look, our nation has sent a probe to Mars. Hey, it has reached and is busy searching for methane there. Yay! it found methane! Whoopee! What? Searching for methane is important, man. Very important’.

Others are belligerent, ‘Look, the western media is calling India the next regional superpower and even others cry, ‘hey India should have a permanent seat on the security council’.

Security Council? Whose security exactly? Not 23-year old Jyothi Singh’s surely?


Then there are all those talk shows with guests proclaiming their sage opinion on root causes, on how this is a complex issue. To me it looks quite simple actually.

Some years back, in Washington DC, hair dresser, cocaine user and single mother Kathy Myers finished feeding her three children, Tom (10), Sandy(7) and Margie(5). Breakfast that morning was pancakes with syrup and glasses of milk.

The syrup tasted funny and Margie started to complain. She didn’t carry on long though. After just two spoons, she keeled over, face forward, dead before her forehead hit the table top. Her two elder siblings followed in quick succession. Turns out that half the syrup was composed of pesticide.

Myers was getting ready to drive calmly down to a nearby lake to dispose off the bodies, when her ex-hubby just happened to drop by just then and he caught her red-handed. Later, she testified that she did it because her new boyfriend, who was also her pusher, didn’t like having kids in the house.

Immediately a debate raged in America on what was the ‘root cause’ – The cocaine that charged through her brain like a Visigoth, destroying the one thing she must have still had, a mother’s love. Was it responsible? Was her pusher boyfriend to blame? Or maybe his bosses? Or her husband perhaps, for divorcing her after he found that she was a closet junkie? Or the guys who mixed and blended the stuff? Perhaps the drug cartels in Cali who had moved the cocaine into the US, a month prior? Or maybe even the peasant who stripped and washed the coca leaves, sitting in a clearing in front of an adobe hut? All these aspects were weighed and analysed threadbare on the social media and opinion pieces. Everything and everybody, except Kathy Myers, was found to be culpable.

In the end, sentenced to death, Kathy fried. She got what was coming to her, plain and simple. There was never anything complex about the case. Evil, like Kathy Myers and Mukesh Singh, is like corns in your foot. Cut them off and move on, that’s it. Don’t worry, they’ll grow back up, there will be other Mukesh Singhs and Kathy Myers, no matter what you do or how well society treats them. Don’t philosophize over why they do what they do. Learn to recognize them as what they really are – evil, an entity that cannot be placated, which cannot be reasoned with and will not stop unless it is destroyed.

In case you are thinking I sound like a Christian evangelist, I am in fact an agnostic. But let me tell you this – I may doubt the existence of God, but I don’t doubt the existence of the Satan for even a second.

Things are simple as long as we wish to keep them so. The single most significant achievement of the Satan has been to always leave enough in everything, for a lively debate to begin, while he slips out the back door, laughing his ass off at all those stupid talk show hosts doing exactly what he wants them to do – opine, analyse, talk, argue, scream, browbeat and finally go home, not having arrived at any conclusion whatsoever, except that perverse satisfaction we get, in the feeling of having laid something to rest, as if by doing so, finally Jyothi Singh’s soul shall rest in peace.


But then, India, a nation that takes pride in calling itself a democracy that screams about freedom of speech from it’s rooftops, stands bared as nothing more than a nation of pub-crawling windbags that stand mute as the government bans stuff left and right, in the hope of pleasing every petty, narrow-minded interest group. India has begun banning almost everything, the latest being the slaughtering for beef, banning which might render jobless thousands who depend on the abattoirs and the sale of meat for their livelihoods.

Speak to a member of the same Indian literati and he will immediately wax eloquent about how the ‘father of the nation’, Gandhi, advocated a ban on cow slaughter. He might even convince you that lying down naked with two nubile unmarried young teenagers is a good thing. Why, the ‘father of the nation’ did it regularly to ‘test his willpower’, didn’t he?

Chickens are not living beings, nor for that matter are fish, or even lobsters that Indians wantonly pop into their mouths, after grilling them in a tandoor. Ducks and geese are okay to behead, even though venerated Indian gods like Ganesha and Laxmi use them regularly as their own personal limos and are therefore just as holy.

But cows? Hey, they are sacred. At holy joints like Varanasi, they even worship a bull’s testicles. Stick around at one of those filthy ghats there and you’ll see folk walking up behind a bull sprawled out in the middle of the road, to place their palms on it’s balls and touch them to their foreheads.


About the video, it is a singularly hard-hitting and honest example of film-making but there is only one problem that I see in it – the title. Jyothi Singh is no longer India’s daughter. India has lost the moral right to call her it’s daughter.

2 thoughts on “The Mars Club Member’s Daughter”

  1. Gary Robinson said:

    I wish there were some women who would worship my balls, Achyut. Alas, some of them would be more inclined to cut them off! 🙂 🙂 🙂


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